Toxic People

As hard as it may be I have decided to cut out the people in my life that have become toxic to me. there are some people who require more work and get offended or upset at the drop of a hat. For instance one so called friend was in school for massage therapy and he offered to come to my home and give me a massage. Yeah this sounds great and all. the problem was when I couldn't fit it in my busy schedule he got all ornery and whined about it. He pretty much told me he was done trying to help me out. The thing is I never asked for his help I never asked him for free massages he offered. After several of these instances I cut him lose. This was a toxic relationship. When a person tries to spin things back to you and blame you there is a problem.
I have decided I am no longer going to explain myself when there is no need to. If I'm busy I'm busy that is all there is to it. Nothing else needs to be said. I work, I'm in school full time, I'm a mother of two I have not time for games nor do I wish to involve myself in that type of activity. I'm 40 years old and will live my life as I see fit. No explanations are due to anyone else.
So from here on out I surround myself with nothing but positive people.